A pioneer of Open Records and open Adoption speaks out about HONEST, ethical child alternative care and the importance of maintaining consanguinity and provenance.
You need to watch and listen to ALL!
Part Two: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ibxq6Wgvh0s&feature=related
Part Three: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a10ywSZgdpA&feature=related
Part Four: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYMf_YSBLfQ&feature=related
Part Five: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vM6yeEbcbVE&feature=related
I hope there will be a Part 6 in which Annette would repeat what she has said previously:
“It seems to us that, if we take off our blinders, we must admit that we have been co-opted in supporting a system that causes pain and lifelong suffering to all the parties involved. ... Relinquishment of children to a new set of parents, as a final, irrevocable act, severing all rights of the birthparents, must be discontinued...
“Open adoption, which we helped pioneer, is not a solution to the problems inherent in adoption. Without legal sanction, open adoption is an unenforceable agreement at the whim of the adoptive parents. Instead, we propose a form of guardianship adoption that we believe would be in the best interests of all concerned, with special benefits for the adoptee for it would decrease the abandonment/rejection issue and permit the child to know the birthparents as real people who cared about him but could not raise him...
“We have always maintained that adoptive placement is the last resort, to be considered only when all other options have been thoroughly explored….The struggle to open records and address the wrongs of the past must continue. However, simultaneously and with equal emphasis, we must begin to look at the future and address the need for sweeping change...
“Why have we not made prevention a major issue?
“We have always maintained that adoptive placement is the last resort, to be considered only when all other options have been thoroughly explored….The struggle to open records and address the wrongs of the past must continue. However, simultaneously and with equal emphasis, we must begin to look at the future and address the need for sweeping change.”
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Saturday, July 19, 2008
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