tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post7533915338445395194..comments2023-12-26T19:43:01.770-08:00Comments on FAMILY PRESERVATION not Adoption Separaration: GRUESOME, HORRIFIC ADOPTION TRAGEDYMirah Ribenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13626873757236976251noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-86027081863731887462011-03-28T14:22:00.372-07:002011-03-28T14:22:00.372-07:00Bravo, your opinion is usefulBravo, your opinion is usefulPayPal online casinoshttp://paypalonlinecasinos.narod.runoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-67400896235197732322011-02-18T13:40:33.782-08:002011-02-18T13:40:33.782-08:00I don't get it. How in the world did these pe...I don't get it. How in the world did these people ever qualify to foster or adopt? I'm an AP, and we got to go through lots of training, interviewing, background checks, more training ... or maybe it's that our agency and social workers are better than most, and wanted to make darn sure we were ready to deal with any issue that will arise as our child grows up. It just makes me so ANGRY. How in the WORLD did these people qualify to be near, much less raise children?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-40563281688741707182011-02-18T11:10:07.105-08:002011-02-18T11:10:07.105-08:00What needs to happen is that family preservation n...What needs to happen is that family preservation needs to be the primary goal, as biological parents are FAR less likely to inflict this kind of horror on their own children. That is not to say it never happens, just that it is a LOT LESS LIKELY. For every child who is removed from their natural parents with good cause, there are 300 others removed because their house was dirty, their parents were poor, or the social worker plain didn't like them. The tyrannical government interventions need to stop, and YES foster parents/adoptive parents should face much stricter testing and requirements. <br /><br />We went from providing help for a few needy children to CREATING a generation of children "in need" to salve our own egos. Too many social workers do the work our of some weird need to be useful, but the results are less than helpful to society or abused children. <br /><br />It's a sick system.Adopteehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00989232314224971152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-20868332391684077182011-02-18T09:23:19.494-08:002011-02-18T09:23:19.494-08:00It has to stop.It has to stop.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-61331342824949907872011-02-18T06:46:22.145-08:002011-02-18T06:46:22.145-08:00I am so sorry for your pain and suffering and for ...I am so sorry for your pain and suffering and for the triggering this must incur.<br /><br />You are so right! <br /><br />I wonder if these freaks actually did get to finalize an adoption. The newspapers often get that fact wrong and call fosterers or prospective adopters adoptive parents when they are not. Not that it matters much in terms of their being approved and what they did.<br /><br />But that's why I said details to follow as they become available...Mirah Ribenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13626873757236976251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2384966947084602158.post-68147000901204642002011-02-18T06:38:09.584-08:002011-02-18T06:38:09.584-08:00People who want to be foster parents or adopt chil...People who want to be foster parents or adopt children SHOULD be required to pass full psychological exams, pass drug tests, and pass extensive background checks. <br /><br />This handing children over to lunatics NEEDS TO STOP!!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />I'm lucky I survived my adoption. The man who adopted me threatened to kill me on a regular basis. He also molested and beat me and told me I was sh*t and ugly and no wonder my mother didn't want me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com